So last night I went to my partners place and I gave him the cookies (the ones I made in my last post.)  I think they went over well.  That night we talked about listening to nature and other things and that night there was a crazy lightening storm!  I think the problem lies in that he (in a respectable humbleing way) doesnt look into nature signs in his own life because he doesnt see himself as apart of the larget picture.  Does every fallen feather have meaning behind it?  Does every storm have specific meaning to your own life?  He didnt think so.  I however told him that there needs to be balance in it.  I think as of late, I've been doing the opposite of what he has been doing.  I've been looking for meaning behind every crow's caw and every cloud.  So in acuality, the spell worked for both of us!  Hopefully for him to see more meaning behind other signs in nature, see the magic everyday, and for me to not try and look into everything so deeply.  The storm was there for both of us and probably for many others in our area to teach us things that we needed to hear or just for us to enjoy.